Forget everything you may believe about domination and BDSM in the context of humiliation, discipline and pain. Sensual domination is nothing of the sort.

What it is however, is something that’s so erotically delightful that pleasure is amplified for both the dominant and the submissive.

What is Sensual Domination?

Sensual domination is a kind of power dynamic in the realm of BDSM, yes, but with a twist. It’s not about humiliation or punishment, but rather praise and reward. And in this power play, the art of giving and receiving praise and reward is entirely erotic and teasingly sexual.

Sensual domination is to enhance and entice all of the senses. In this way, it’s a milder or softer kind of dominance. In fact, many have engaged in a bit of sensual domination without even knowing it…

Take using blindfolds, for example—when one partner sensually covers their lover’s eyes and takes the reign in the bedroom. This could be considered a light form of sensual domination. In short, sensual domination is all about pleasure.

And even though it may sound a lot easier to practice than the more traditional kind, this isn’t always so.

Practicing Sensual Domination

For dominants, it may involve more skill to practice sensual domination as opposed to the traditional kind of dominance. This is because it requires more patience and understanding of their submissive’s turn-ons, as well as their state of mind.

For that reason, communication before, during, and after a scene is important, and a strong sense of trust and respect. You may also want to introduce a safeword into your scene, just to make sure that everyone is always comfortable.

Additionally, aftercare is also just as important after a scene, which will only further solidify the respect for one another, allowing both parties to continue to feel safe and seen.

Examples of Sensual Domination

There are so many different ways you can either try sensual domination, or push your scenes into further bliss. Whichever you choose, try to focus not only on the body, but also the mind.