8 Ways to Spice Up Your Intimacy This Love Month
Winters are long, dark, and cold. It’s natural to want to bundle up in a blanket, light a few candles, and cuddle with your partner until spring comes back around.
However, with love day just around the corner, you might want to dig yourself out of the blanket mountain and experiment with new ways to spice up your sex life.
After all, long and cold evenings have their advantages – when you don’t want to step foot outside, you and your partner have a lot of time on your hands to have some sexy fun together.
So, if you’re in the mood to heat things up in the bedroom, we have 28 ideas to inspire you!
1. Make a Fantasy Yes/No/Maybe List
It is very normal to have sexual fantasies. You have them, and your partner has them, even if you don’t share them with each other. A “fantasy yes/no/maybe” list is a great way to start sharing your sexual fantasies with your partner if you’re unsure how to start a conversation.
So, you can do it digitally or the old-school way with pen and paper. You write down your list, while your partner writes down theirs. And when you’re ready, either swap your lists or share the items on your list out loud.
Fantasies that match are a good place to start when you want to spice up your sex life!
2. Give Them a Tantric Massage
The love day is all about showing your appreciation and love for your partner. Giving them a sensual massage is one way to show it, which is especially great if your partner’s love language is physical touch or acts of service.
Give your partner a lingam or yoni massage, treating them to an evening where their pleasure is the priority. They’ll surely feel loved and appreciated.
3. Wear a Blindfold
Taking one of your senses away can enhance the pleasure during sex. And wearing a blindfold is one of the sexiest and easiest ways to do just that.
If you don’t have an actual blindfold, don’t sweat it! The next time you have sex, use an item like a soft t-shirt, a tie, or a scarf to blindfold your partner. Make sure to check in with your partner if they feel comfortable throughout the experience and have fun!
4. Masturbate in the Shower
Yeah, having shower sex is great and all, but have you ever tried masturbating with your partner in the shower? If the answer is no, then it should definitely be on your to-do list!
You can masturbate in front of your partner while they watch. Use a showerhead or your favorite toys to masturbate and put on a show. Or, you can try mutual masturbation, where you touch your partner and they touch you. Either way is sexy!
5. Buy a Sex Toy Together
Whether you are a sex toy novice, or a seasoned user, buying a new sex toy is always an exciting experience. And doing it together with your partner can add an extra layer to it.
Make it a fun experience by making dinner, lighting some candles to set the mood, and do some online sex toy shopping together. TIANI Duo is a great couples’ massager to add to your sex toy collection to enhance mutual pleasure.
6. Cook Breakfast Together Naked
No better way to start a weekend than by cooking a delicious breakfast together, completely naked! It can be a fun and sexy way to take something mundane as cooking together to the next level. Bonus points if you have matching aprons you can wear while cooking.
7. Play Strip Poker
Make your next date night at home more fun by playing a card game together, where the loser gets to lose their clothes. It can be a competitive and fun activity to do together. And once the clothing is off, things will definitely become more heated.
8. Pick 5 Sex Positions To Try
Having a few sex positions you love and have sex in on a regular basis is great. But when you want to spice up your sex life, the easiest way to do it is by trying a new position.
So, together with your partner, pick five sex positions you both would be interested to try. Now that you have the list and know which sex positions to try, you can easily try them the next time you have sex.