Three Exciting Ways to Enjoy Self-Pleasure (Plus Alternative Techniques)

It’s easy to get stuck in a rut, even with something as pleasurable as masturbating. Many different parts come into play when it comes to self-love: we have our favorite types of porn, our favorite vibrator, and even our favorite time of day to do it.

If you find yourself looking for ways to spice up your self-love sessions, we have three illustrations showing you some fun new female masturbation positions to try getting your kicks in, as well as some alternative ways to enjoy the LELO sex toys you already own.

Standing On Your Own Two Feet

If you’re a fan of standing-up sex positions—and we know that most of you are, judging by how popular our article on it is—why not try masturbating that way? And no, not in a ‘quickly trying to orgasm while letting your conditioner soak in because you need to leave for work in 20 minutes’ sort of way.

Stand with your back against the wall and use your trusty GIGI 2 G-spot massager for one of its other fantastic functions—broad and intense clitoral stimulation. It’s the perfect tool for taking your time to reach orgasm, especially if you normally favor a more pinpoint clitoral vibe like MIA 2. You can really explore the slight curves to the edge of GIGI 2’s flattened surface.

We’ve also found that, should you have a counter or table of the right height, you can hold GIGI 2 in one hand (flattened tip facing up but titled to meet the crest of your vulva) and move your body against the vibrator rather than the other way around. It somehow feels like a much more interactive (rather than self-propelled) experience, which can heighten the sensation, but you can also play with the intensity by adjusting how close you hold your thighs together.

Try it in the Shower

Standing up is one of the best masturbation positions for solo sex in the shower. Lean against the shower wall with your back, let the steamy shower heat up the air around you, and show yourself some love. Bonus points if you have a removable shower head which will allow you to add extra stimulation.

You can alternate between your favorite LELO sex toys and a detachable shower head or mix the stimulations together for more pleasure. If you don’t have the removable shower head and standing shower, don’t worry – the tub faucet can do the job just fine.

Ask Your Partner to Watch

A great way to spice up your masturbation session is by asking your partner if they’d like to watch you pleasure yourself. They’ll surely say yes and be flattered and aroused by the suggestion. And you’ll get added pleasure from your partner watching you.

What’s great with the standing masturbation position is that you can do it everywhere. It doesn’t matter whether you’re in the kitchen with your partner, in a shower, or in your bedroom. Lean against the wall, get your partner’s attention and go to town.

Find Different Erogenous Zones

G-spot vibrators like GIGI 2 and MIA 2 are perfect for exploring your erogenous zones all over your body. You can adjust the strength of the vibrating toy and drag it along your most sensitive areas like your neck, breasts, belly, and inner thighs to turn yourself on.

After a bit of experimentation, you’ll be able to find new sensitive areas on your body you enjoy stimulating. This new discovery can lead not only to better masturbation sessions but also to improved partnered sex.